PARENT'S GUIDE TO THE "SYSTEM"

by Cheryl Barnes

Contents:

Demand a Copy of the Search Warrant
Order a Copy of the Agency's Policy Manual
Read All Applicable State Laws and Cases
Order Your Records from the Agency
Document all Interactions
Don't Sign a Safety Plan or Stipulation
Request Placement with a Relative
Assert Your Parental Rights
Don't Waive Your Right to a Trial
File Court Reports and Affidavits
Do Everything by Court Order
Request an Administrative Hearing
Make Your Attorney Work for You
Protect Your Child From State Care Abuse
Use Proper Terminology

Order a hardcopy of this Book!

Demand a Copy of the Search Warrant

You do not have to speak with a Government Agent or allow them to enter your home without a search
warrant!

When a government agent (social worker, police officer, etc) comes to your door, they are seeking
your consent to allow them into your home. Remain calm. Say something like:

I understand your concerns and I'm happy to cooperate. May I see your search warrant please?

The agent may try to tell you that a search warrant isn't required because you can give voluntary
consent or he may try to make you believe you are required to allow him into your home. The agent
might say, ?I?m required by law to come into your home to investigate.? It is true that the agent
is required to make an investigation which may include entering your home. However, this doesn?t
give the agent authority to break the law. If the agent needs to enter your home as part of his
investigation, he needs to obtain a search warrant.

Remember that the agent is the one asking you to circumvent the law. You are acting within the
law and he is asking you to ignore the law, skip procedure and just do things his way.

Don't be intimidated. Keep a proper perspective of the situation; you are willing to cooperate
within the law. The law dictates that a search warrant is required before entering a private
home. Your position should be:

I do want to cooperate.
I do not want to ignore proper procedure.
Why would you want to circumvent clearly established laws and procedures?
Do not allow the agent to peer inside of your home or view your children. Do not answer any
questions without seeing the search warrant and verifying it?s authenticity. Even minor questions
such as your date of birth, name, number of children, etc. should not be answered without seeing
a search warrant.

GAINING ENTRY BY THREAT OR INTIMIDATION

Any government official can be held to know that their office does not give them an unrestricted
right to enter peoples' homes at will.

[It is] settled constitutional law that ... police could not enter a dwelling without a warrant
even under statutory authority where probable cause existed. The principle that government
officials cannot coerce entry into people's houses without a search warrant ... is so well
established that any reasonable officer would know it.

appellants' claim, that "a search warrant is not required for home investigatory visits by social
workers," is simply not the law.

[N]owhere is the protective force of the fourth amendment more powerful than it is when the
sanctity of the home is involved. ? Therefore, we have been adamant in our demand that absent
exigent circumstances a warrant will be required before a person's home is invaded by the
authorities."

- Calabretta v Floyd 189 F.3d 808 (9th Cir. 1999)

EVIDENCE REQUIRED TO OBTAIN A SEARCH WARRANT

In order to get a search warrant, the agent needs some sort of evidence. It can't be an anonymous
phone call or allegations without any supporting evidence.

Even when the agent has enough evidence to obtain a search warrant, he is restricted to looking
for specific things listed on the warrant. As an example, the warrant may give the agent
authority to interview one of your children, this wouldn?t allow him to interview siblings or
look through your home. It also wouldn?t require you to answer any questions.

Agents typically do not seek warrants because; a) they don?t have enough evidence to obtain one
and b) they don?t wish to be restricted in their ?investigations?.

This constitutional protection was put into place to protect families against unwarranted
governmental intrusion into their private lives. Don't waive it! When properly used, this
protection is adequate to protect innocent families but will not serve to conceal genuine child
abuse.

QUESTIONING CHILDREN AT SCHOOL

While families are safe from warrantless governmental intrusion in their private homes; most
states require that school and day care personnel allow state agents access to children without
informing the parents either before or after contact has been made.

A way to overcome this is to teach your children to exercise their right to have their parents
present before answering any questions. The easiest way to do this is by making up a laminated
card and instructing the child to hand it to government agents. A sample card might look like
this:

NOTICE TO GOVERNMENT AGENTS:

You are hereby informed that I have a right to have my parents present prior to answering any
questions. I am now exercising that right and request that you contact my parents immediately.

The back of the card should have the child?s name, parents? names and contact information. Several
numbers should be listed; home, work, pager and an extra emergency number. Home and work
addresses should be given as well. The more contact information, the better. This will eliminate
the possibility of the agent claiming he didn?t know how to reach you.

By utilizing a written card, the child need only hand it to the agent rather than memorizing what
to say. Since it?s in writing, the agent can?t say the child didn?t properly exert his right to
have parents present prior to answering questions.

You may be asking; ?How do I explain to my child what a government agent is?? Most of us teach our
children not to talk to strangers. Government agents are strangers! It?s okay to tell your child
not to talk to any adult unless you've given permission.

The reason we teach our children not to talk to strangers is because we don?t know what their
motives are; they may be seeking to harm them. This couldn?t be more true with government agents.
We don?t know their motives and we can?t presume they are pure because the child welfare system
has irreparably harmed many children in the past.

Because children sometimes can?t tell the difference between government agents and ?regular?
people, it is a good idea to teach children about the types of questions they shouldn?t answer
rather than the types of people they shouldn?t talk to.

Basically, no person should ask about things that happen at home; what they eat, who they
associate with, who visits, what type of discipline is used, etc. If an adult has a legitimate
need to knows these things, he/she should ask the parent, not the child.

INVASIVE SURVEYS

Public and private schools are increasingly requiring children to participate in group surveys
that ask intrusive questions about private home life. These surveys are often a fishing
expedition to find indicators of abuse.

The so-called indicators aren?t what you?d expect them to be. Low income, no telephone, residence
outside the city limits, more than three children, use of corporal punishment or grounding, both
parents working, single parents, religious practices and other common things are seen as
indicators of abuse and could generate a report to a child welfare agency.

By law, children may be excluded from these invasive surveys if the parents have a Hatch Letter on
file with the school. Click here for a sample letter under the Hatch Amendment.

The Protection of Pupil Rights Amendment (The Hatch Amendment) to the General Education Provisions
Act, which became effective November 12, 1984 allows parents to exclude their children from
basically anything that isn?t reading, writing or arithmetic.

The Hatch Amendment provides a procedure for filing complaints with the U.S. Department of
Education and then withholding of federal funds for those in violation of the law.

Order a Copy of the Agency's Policy Manual

Under federal law (Title IV-B & IV-E of the Social Security Act), state child protection agencies
are required to have a policies and procedures manual in place and to make it available to any
citizen upon request.

If the agency refuses to honor your verbal request, send a formal written request under the
Freedom of Information Act (FOIA). A sample can be found here.

Under the FOIA, each agency is required to determine within 20 days (excluding Saturdays, Sundays,
and legal holidays) after the receipt of a request whether to comply with the request. The FOIA
permits an agency to extend the time limits up to 10 days in unusual circumstances.

Sometimes the agency will ask you to come to their office and look at the manual instead of
providing you with a copy. Continue to insist on a copy. You need your own copy so that you can
read it at your leisure and have it on hand as a reference.

If your written FOIA request is denied or not answered within the time frame allowed, send an
appeal letter. A sample appeal letter can be found here. An agency is required to make a decision
on an appeal within 20 days (excluding Saturdays, Sundays, and legal holidays). It is possible
for an agency to extend the time limits by an additional 10 days.

If the appeal is denied or not answered within the time frame allowed, you may need to ask the
court to compel the agency to provide you with a copy of the manual. If you have an open case
involving your children, this can be done by filing a Motion to Compel within that case. A sample
Motion to Compel the agency to provide you with a copy of the manual can be found here.

If you don?t have an open case, you can file an FOIA appeal lawsuit in the U.S. District Court.
This would be more costly and complicated. If you wish to pursue this route, you can get forms
and a rulebook from the U.S. District Court in which you?ll be filing.

Additional information and forms for making requests under the Freedom of Information Act can be
found Here.

Once you have a copy of the manual, read it! You should become familiar with the agency's
policies so that you know what the agency is supposed to do and what they aren't allowed to do.

Bring the manual with you to meetings with social workers and case planning conferences.

When they do violate policy, point it out to them in a calm, non-accusatory manner. Follow-up with
a letter outlining the policies that were violated and what you?d like to see done to correct
them.

When you first get the manual and discover that past violations have occurred, send the agency a
letter pointing out the violations and asking them to make adjustments as soon as possible.
Assume the violations were committed inadvertently even if you believe otherwise. When you behave
in a friendly and professional manner, the courts will be more likely to agree with your position.

Read All Applicable State Laws and Cases

Find out the exact legal definition of child abuse and neglect in your state. Once you've found
the statute, research caselaw to find out how the courts have applied the statutory definition in
other cases.

Courts base their rulings on what higher courts have ruled in the past. A hierarchy of courts is
given below:

U.S. Supreme Court-applies to the entire United States
U.S. Court of Appeals-applies to that federal circuit
U.S. District Court-applies to that federal district
State Supreme Court-applies to the entire state
State Court of Appeals-generally applies to the entire state
State Circuit or District Court-applies to that portion of the state

If you find a case from the Second District Court and you are in the Third District, the Judge in
your case isn?t bound by that ruling. However, these rulings may have a persuasive effect,
meaning that you could persuade your Judge to rule your way because the Judge in a neighboring
district did.

You can find laws and cases at a law library or on the internet. Findlaw is a good place to search
for state laws.

CPS Watch provides free legal research to parents and pro bono attorneys. To make a research
request online, go to www.cpswatch.com/resources/researchhelp.htm. You may also make requests by
mail.

Legal research requests return cases and code only, not advice on how to use the information. For
parents needing advice, we offer an email service by subscription. You may subscribe to the CPS
Watch Legal Information Group by going to lists.cpswatch.com. We currently have seven
participating attorneys in the email group to answer parent questions.

Once you have the laws and caselaw, make sure that the case against you remains within that
statutory definition.

It is very common for social workers to promulgate a mud-slinging campaign against you by filling
the petition with irrelevant information. You should continually require them to show the court
how their allegations are connected to abuse.

As an example, the state might put in the petition that the parent?s watch x-rated movies. While
some people might find this distasteful, it has nothing to do with abuse or neglect. Thus, your
task would be to require them to connect the alleged movie-watching to abuse or remove it from
the complaint. You?d ask things like, ?Are you alleging that the children were neglected or
abused as a result of the movie watching?? and ?Are you alleging that the children were
unattended while the parents watched x-rated movies?? - ?How exactly are you connecting the
watching of x-rated movies to the alleged abuse or neglect??

Another common accusation is that of ?spanking?. The state will say that you regularly spank your
child or that you use an instrument to administer corporal punishment, but won?t allege any
injuries from the spankings.

Your focus would be on whether or not ?regular spanking? or ?spanking with an instrument? amounts
to abuse. Again, you?d ask them to show you what law states spankings without injury are abuse?
You needn?t bother admitting or denying the spankings at this point because it hasn?t been
established that they would be abuse.

The temptation is to jump in and defend against the mud-slinging; to say that you don?t watch x
-rated movies or that you use time-outs rather than spanking. However, this will lead you down a
path of ridiculous, unrelated accusations and equally ridiculous defenses.

In the end it will burn up all your energy and bring out all your faults-faults that have nothing
to do with child abuse or neglect.

It will also give the state things to use against you. As an example, you might admit that you do
spank your child with an instrument but only as a last resort and have never left a bruise. The
state will later say something like, ?The parents admit to hitting their child with an object but
are in denial about it?s negative effects.?

Social workers are notorious for twisting words and leaving out pertinent facts. The fewer words
you give them to twist, the better off you?ll be. Here?s an example:

Social Worker: Does your husband have an anger management problem?
Mother: No.
Social Worker: Well does he get angry?
Mother: Of course he gets angry, everyone gets angry.

The worker wrote in her report:

Mother reports her husband ?gets angry? and views this as normal behavior.

Is this what the mother said? Yes! Is it what the mother meant? No! Will the Judge get the wrong
idea from this report? Yes! The worker is implying that the mother knows her husband is a threat
but refuses to do anything about it. She?s setting the mother up to be accused of ?failure to
protect?.

The mother shouldn?t have been discussing her husband?s ?anger? with the social worker before the
worker had drawn a clear line between the alleged anger and the alleged abuse or neglect. And
that discussion would?ve taken place in a courtroom on the record rather than in a social worker
?s office.

The mother?s response to this allegation should be, ?While not confirming the accusation, the
defendant asserts that the presence of ?anger? doesn?t meet the statutory definition of child
abuse or neglect.?

You should first ask yourself, ?Does this meet the statutory definition of abuse??. If it doesn?t,
you needn?t bother defending it. Rather, shift the focus back to the state by requiring them to
make that connection.

The mother could take time to explain the whole conversation and the intent of her statements, but
this would take the focus off the true legal argument and create a situation where the worker?s
credibility might be weighed against her own (their word against yours).

The point you want the Judge to see is that the state has failed to meet it?s burden of proof.
There is no issue of credibility because even if the accusations were true, they don?t amount to
abuse. If there?s no allegation of abuse or neglect, the state has no jurisdiction.

Order Your Records from the Agency

Document all Interactions

Keep a journal detailing all interactions with state agents.

In addition to the journal, give the agent and opportunity to confirm or deny your version of
events by sending a documentation letter after each phone call or verbal conversation. A sample
documentation letter can be found here.

A documentation letter similar to the one above should also be used to document visits with your
children if they are in state care. A sample visitation letter can be found here.

This letter should be sent to all persons present at the visit as well as the worker managing your
case. A copy will be filed with your court report.

If you get responses to either the documentation letters or visitation letters and their version
of events doesn?t match yours, continue writing back and forth hashing out the discrepancies. All
letters should be sent by certified mail.

Sometimes government agents will not respond to your letters. That?s okay. They will have a hard
time going into court later with a different set of events when they failed to respond to your
letters. Your letters will become part of the court records and can be used as evidence.

We recommend that you tape all interactions in both audio and video. If a state agent refuses to
be taped, don't speak to them without your attorney present. Agents with pure motives will want
the record preserved just as carefully as you do. Unless they plan to act illegally or
unethically, recorded meetings are more to their advantage than yours.

In most states you can audio tape the agent with the consent of only one participant (you). You
?ll need to check your state?s law on eavesdropping prior to audio taping without consent. Failure
to do so could result in a criminal arrest. Tapes made without the consent of all parties may not
be admissible in court as evidence, but they will serve to aid you in writing follow-up
documentation letters.

Some behavior needs to be seen as well as heard. If you can afford to, you should equip your home
and person with hidden video cameras.

Hidden cameras are very small and unnoticeable. Some can be hidden in your home, while others can
be worn on your person, such as a jean jacket, backpack, baseball cap or tie.

A catalog of surveillance equipment is available by calling or writing our office.

Don't Sign a Safety Plan or Stipulation

The state agent may ask you to sign a "safety plan" or voluntarily agree to home visitation as a
means of either keeping your children now or having them placed back home on a trial basis. The
purpose of these programs is to gather enough evidence (real or imagined) to build a case to take
your children. Remember, states only get federal money when they put your children in foster
care, not when they leave them with you under a home visitation program.

These plans often require parents to agree not to use corporal punishment or other legal methods
of child rearing. For a family that has been using corporal punishment to suddenly stop creates
frustration and confusion and increases the likelihood that the parent will react out of anger.
It also sends a message to the child that he doesn?t need to obey his parents to avoid a spanking
because a state agent will come out and tell them they can?t spank him. If the original report
had to do with problems with the child?s behavior and the parent?s use of discipline; this safety
plan would create chaos.

Another tactic is to impose restrictions that are outside the parent?s control, such as requiring
that a child do well medically even though the child has a diagnosed condition that would prevent
this. The child?s illness leaves a high probability that he will be sick, thus the parents have
no control over compliance with the safety plan and are simply counting the days until their
child is removed.

In one such case, the child was diagnosed with a brittle bone disease and had even fractured while
in foster care. The parents were asked to sign a safety plan which required the child not to have
another fracture. The chances that he would re-fracture were very high and totally outside the
parents control.

In another case, a child had a weight disorder and had gained an additional five pounds during a
short foster care stay. The parents were asked to sign a safety plan which required the child to
lose weight. The parents had been taking their child to doctors for years to no avail. Even
foster care couldn?t make the child lose weight. How then could the parents be expected to
control their child?s weight when the doctors and the state had failed?

In yet another case, the parents of a child with a seizure disorder were asked to sign a safety
plan which required their child not to have seizures.

Sometimes the plan is simply to have the child?s grades improve, yet this is still outside the
parents control. The parents can do everything in their power to facilitate good grades, but it?s
ultimately up to the child to perform.

All of these plans will fail and the child will end up in state custody. The fact that the parents
have failed one plan gives the state grounds not to offer another plan. Thus, they will move for
permanency (termination and adoption).

Safety plans are intentionally vague and therefore impossible to follow. The plan might read,
"parent's will maintain a home appropriate for children". This is subjective; you may think you
home is excellent for children, but the agent might think that because you don't have safety
plugs in your electrical outlets, the home isn't appropriate.

For desperate parents, the plan might seem like an easy way to get your child home or keep him
home. In the long run, however, signing a safety plan could cost you your child permanently.

Bottom line - If you're not guilty of abuse or neglect, don't tolerate an unwarranted government
assault and don't "settle" by agreeing to services you don't need. If the agency believes you
are guilty of abuse or neglect, make them prove it in court.

Request Placement with a Relative

The states get more money for placing children in foster care than they do for placing them with
relatives. Thus, they are reluctant to place with relatives and when they do, they often require
the relative to become a licensed foster care provider so the agency can get federal money.

Relative placement shouldn?t be confused with relative foster care. A relative foster home is just
like any other foster home, except the caregiver happens to be related. They are bound by all the
same restrictions as other foster homes and the agency can remove the children at any time
without cause just as they could from a foster home that wasn?t a relative. Foster caregivers do
not have a right to have a child placed in their home and they are not interested parties to the
court case.

With relative placement, however, the agency doesn?t license the relatives as foster caregivers.
The relatives aren?t bound by the restrictions of a foster home. A child placed under these
circumstances couldn?t be removed from the home without cause.

Federal law requires that relatives be given preference for placement. The law doesn't allow the
agency to impose restrictions on relative placements, such as foster care training or a home
study, although most states require a background screen to be certain the relative doesn?t have a
prior record of child abuse. Placement with relatives should be immediate without any delays.

Grandparents have the option of gaining interested party status by filing a Motion to Intervene
with the court. With a Motion to Intervene, the grandparent can force placement when the agency
refuses.

A Motion to Intervene gives the grandparent legal standing as a party to the case. This allows
them to make motions to the court and to have the court hear their side before any decision is
made. They can write court reports at each hearing to give the court their version of what has
transpired as well as make recommendations about what should be done in the future.

* Note to Parents - Federal law does not require or even allow placement with a relative that is
working against reunification. Further, a relative who continually makes false reports shouldn't
be rewarded with placement of the child. If your child has been placed with a relative that is
working against reunification, file a Motion to Change Placement with the court and cite the
reason as the current placement is a hindrance to reunification.

Assert Your Parental Rights

As your child?s parent, you still retain all your parental rights. Removing your child from your
care is based on the child?s need for protection. It does not modify or revoke your parental
rights.

You have all the same rights you always did, expect the right to have your child live in your
home. This includes the right to medical records, educational records, the right to consent to
medical care and to choose the doctor your child sees, the right to decide what church your child
should attend, what type of environment he should reside in, etc.

Generally government agents sometimes pretend like you have no rights or fail to consult you
before making decisions concerning your child?s care. If you don?t assert your parental rights,
the government agent most likely will not honor them.

When your child is placed in state care, you should send a letter preserving your parental rights
and outlining the type of care you want your child to receive. A sample letter can be found here.

MEDICAL RECORDS BELONG TO PARENTS

Sometimes medical providers wrongly believe that if your children are in state care, you don?t
have any parental rights. Because of this false assumption, they will withhold medical records or
refuse to speak to you about your child?s care. If the medical provider has made a report against
you or is alleging abuse, he may be very reluctant to turn over records pertaining to your child,
knowing those records might also incriminate him.

However, the records belong to you, as your child?s legal parent. The medical provider is simply
a ?custodian? of those records. This is why you need to sign a release form before the records
can be sent to another doctor or given to a state agent.

In rare circumstances, medical records may be withheld as part of a criminal investigation. If
this case, a court order is required to withhold the records.

If you don?t have any luck in getting the records yourself, you can pay an attorney a small fee to
write a letter for you. The attorney wouldn?t be representing you, just drafting a letter. For
some reason, doctors tend to respond better to letters from attorneys than letters parents.

We suggest that you send a letter to your child?s medical providers to preserve and clarify your
parental rights. An example letter can be found here.

PARENTAL CONSENT REQUIRED FOR MEDICAL CARE

The medical provider needs your consent prior to treating your child. This is true even if your
child is in state care.

The 9th Circuit Federal Court recently decided a case which greatly emphasizes the parental right
to govern medical care, even when children are in state custody:

[43] The right to family association includes the right of parents to make important medical
decisions for their children, and of children to have those decisions made by their parents
rather than the state.

? it is in the interest of both parents and children that parents have ultimate authority to make
medical decisions for their children...

- Wallis v Spencer, 202 F.3d 1126 (9th Cir. 2000)

In the above case, the Wallis children were picked up and taken to a clinic for an invasive
vaginal and anal sexual abuse examination. The court held such exams even for investigative
purposes are unlawful when administered without parental consent or a court order. Parental
consent is always required.

? the "Constitution assures parents that, in the absence of parental consent, physical
examinations of their child may not be undertaken for investigative purposes at the behest of
state officials? the state is required to notify parents and to obtain judicial approval before
children are subjected to investigatory physical examinations.

- Wallis v Spencer, 202 F.3d 1126 (9th Cir. 2000)

State agents and foster caregivers do not have the power to consent to medical care. Even if the
parent refuses to give their consent, the state agent must obtain a court order for medical care.
In this case, the parents have a right to go before the Judge and tell their reasons for not
wanting to give consent.

? unless a judicial officer has determined, upon notice to the parents, and an opportunity to be
heard, that grounds for such an examination exist

- Wallis v Spencer, 202 F.3d 1126 (9th Cir. 2000)

Parents have the right to be present with their child during all medical examinations and
appointments.

Parents have a right arising from Fourteenth Amendment liberty interest in family association to
be with their children while they are receiving medical attention, or to be in a waiting room or
other nearby area if there is a valid reason for excluding them while all or a part of medical
procedure is being conducted.

- Wallis v Spencer, 202 F.3d 1126 (9th Cir. 2000)

Children have a corresponding right to have their parents present during medical exams and
appointments.

Under Fourteenth Amendment right of family association, children have right to the love, comfort,
and reassurance of their parents while they are undergoing medical procedures, including
examinations, particularly those that are invasive or upsetting.

- Wallis v Spencer, 202 F.3d 1126 (9th Cir. 2000)

PARENTS ENTITLED TO DIRECT CHILD?S EDUCATION

You have all the same parental rights concerning your child?s education that you did before he/she
was placed in foster care. Teachers, like doctors sometimes wrongly believe that having a child
in foster care means you have no parental rights. Worse, they believe the foster caregiver
inherits your parental rights. To preserve and clarify your parental rights with your child?s
teachers, we suggest you send a letter similar to the one here.

You may attend parent-teacher conferences. No other person should attend these conferences in your
place, particularly not the state agent or foster care provider. If they desire to be present, it
should be to observe only.

The state agent's only role should be to observe how you act as a parent, how you relate with your
child?s teacher, handle his educational needs, etc. The state agent should not make educational
recommendation, as she is unqualified to do so. The agent shouldn?t answer questions about your
child?s performance or behavior, as she hasn?t spent enough time with him to render an accurate
opinion.

The foster caregiver may have a genuine interest in the meeting because it will be partly her
responsibility to facilitate an environment that will help your child get good grades. However,
the foster caregiver should be respective of your role as a parent and her role as a temporary
care provider. Any questions pertaining to goals for your child should be answered by you, the
parent, not the temporary caregiver.

The foster caregiver should honor your goals and wishes for your child?s educational future even
if she might have set different goals for her own child. This is not her child, but yours. She
should provide an environment that will facilitate your goals. If the foster caregiver refuses to
honor your parental goals and wishes for your child?s education, you should request a change of
placement in court.


INDIVIDUAL EDUCATION PLAN


If your child has an Individual Education Plan or 504 Plan, you should participate in the
designing of the plan. Sometime when you arrive at these planning conferences, the plan is
already drawn up and they simply ?discuss? it with you. Politely ask that blank forms be brought
out so that all parties may actively participate in the planning. You might say:

I understand that you are trying to save time, however, my child?s education isn?t an area I wish
to cut corners in. This plan will direct my child?s education for quite some time. Thus, I want
to put every effort into it?s planning. It?s better to spend additional time in planning now than
to be dissatisfied with the results later.

Although others (state agent or foster caregiver) may attend the planning, you will be the person
that outlines educational goals for your child. Make certain that all your concerns are heard and
noted.

If a plan is developed that you didn?t participate in, demand another planning conference. If you
don?t agree with a plan, don?t sign it. You have the right to a due process hearing if you don?t
agree with an IEP or 504 plan. At such a hearing, the school would need to justify their
unwillingness to heed your suggestions on the plan.

Don't Waive Your Right to a Trial

Parents do not have Constitutional Rights in the Juvenile Court. There is no right to due process
or other protections, except at trial (adjudication). This is because the presiding Judge in the
Juvenile court is supposed to make decisions in the best interests of the child as he/she
interprets that to be. For over 40 years, no form of due process was required in the juvenile
courts; attorneys weren't even allowed.

In 1996, the Supreme Court ruled that some due process was required in the juvenile court, but not
all Constitutional protections.

...the purpose of the court's decision is not to require in the juvenile process all of the
constitutional rights now mandatory in the criminal or even administrative process, but rather
simply to require in adjudicatory hearings those rights required by the notions of fundamental
fairness and due process under the fourteenth amendment.

- Kent v United States 383 U.S. 541, 562 (1966)

Thus, the only time parents have any due process rights is at the adjudication.

Adjudication is referred to as a trial, due process hearing, fact-finding hearing, jurisdictional
hearing, etc. in various states. Going under different names makes it difficult for parents to
determine which hearing is the adjudicatory hearing.

Whatever the state chooses to call it, it's the hearing where the state would present evidence and
witnesses to prove their claim that you abused or neglected your child and you would present
evidence and witnesses to the contrary. You can also cross-examine the state?s witnesses. This
is the only time the state is required to prove their case and the only time the parents may
present evidence in their defense.

It's also the first time you can appeal to a higher court. Even if the juvenile court finds
against you, you can appeal to the state court of appeals. The appellate court is bound by due
process of law and appellate court judges are commanded to look to the law and interpret it
exactly as written.

The juvenile court judge is only commanded to act in the best interests of the child, regardless
of what the law may say. They are given very liberal discretion to loosely interpret the law or
even ignore it if they believe it to be in the child's best interests. Thus, it's in your best
interests to get into the appellate court at the earliest possible point.

Because the adjudication is the only time the state is required to prove their case and the only
time parents have due process rights, state agents make extreme efforts to get the parents to
"stipulate" or "waive" the adjudication.

The stipulations can be worded in such a way that it doesn't sound like you've abused your child.
For example, it might say that your child was injured and the injury was non-accidental but it
doesn't say that you did it.

A stipulation might say the child has a medical condition and the parents are unable to manage it.
This means neglect, the parents can?t or won?t meet their child?s needs. Wording doesn't matter.
Signing any stipulation, regardless of wording is an admission that you are guilty of abuse or
neglect and as such the state was justified in removing your child.

The state only has the power to intervene when parents have abused or neglected their child or
there is a substantial risk that they will abuse or neglect their child. They don?t have the
power to intervene when children are sick or have a medical condition unless the parents are
neglecting the child by failing to provide adequate care. Therefore, when you stipulate (which
means to agree), you are saying the state was correct to intervene, which is admitting abuse or
neglect.

The agency will often resort to extreme measures, such as withholding visitation to extract a
stipulation from parents. Some examples:

In our community CPS takes the position that a parent must acknowledge both the abuse of their
children and take responsibility for the abuse before the parent can have unsupervised visits
with their children.

- Bart Rubin, PhD

? the child protection community is virtually united behind the concept that the parent must
acknowledge responsibility for the abuse and must clarify that abuse with the child before
visitation or contact can be re-established.

- Frampton Durban, Jr, Chief Legal Counsel, Charleston County DSS, Charleston, SC

Do not succumb to these terrorist tactics! It's better to forego visitation for a short time
while you make your case in court, than to lose your child forever in a termination of parental
rights proceeding (under federal law, states must petition for termination of your parental
rights at 15 months regardless of the progress you've made).

The best way to get your child home permanently is by requiring the state to prove their
allegations against you in a court of law. If they fail to prove the allegations, the case is
closed. The state is very aware of this fact, which is why they work so hard to get parents to
waive their right to a trial.

From the Chief Legal Counsel above:

? therapeutic denial reduction work and eventual clarification counseling is far more effective in
reducing risk than litigation.

- Frampton Durban, Jr, Chief Legal Counsel, Charleston County DSS, Charleston, SC

In other words, it?s easier to withhold visitation and coerce parents into signing a stipulation
than to proceed with litigation. The state knows they stand a good chance of losing at trial by
failing to prove conclusively that you are guilty of the allegations.

If you sign a stipulation, you're waiving all your due process rights and can never again argue
that you didn't abuse or neglect your child. This is perhaps the most important suggestion on
this page!

File Court Reports and Affidavits

COURT REPORTS

At each court hearing, all parties to the case may file a report with the court to give the judge
information about what has transpired from one hearing to the next. The judge is required to
read these reports prior to the hearing.

Generally only social workers write court reports because parents aren?t informed of their right
to do this. Parents are "parties" to the case and have the right to file a court report. If a
grandparent has gained interested party status through a Motion to Intervene, they too may file a
court report.

Each court report should outline what has transpired since the last court hearing, including all
interactions with the agency, visitations, and any other events associated with the case (psych
evals, medical appointments, etc). Attach to the court report all the documentation letters
you've been sending to state agents to confirm phone conversations, visitations, etc. (See
Document all Interactions).

When this report is completed, take two copies to the Clerk of the Court and asked her to file
them. She will file stamp each copy; place one in the file and give the other to you. You must
get a file stamped copy as proof the document was filed.

Filing court reports is the only way for you to get your version of events into the written
record. Should your case ever result in an appeal, the appellate court will get the court file
and read everything it contains. When filing an appeal, you generally don't get a hearing, the
court simply makes their ruling based on what's in the court record and your appellate brief.
It's imperative for the appellate court to find your version of events in this written record.

AFFIDAVITS

In the beginning of your case, you should file a notarized affidavit of facts with the court.
This affidavit is sort of a "for the record..." document. Often the petition contains many
erroneous errors and omissions. Your affidavit will contain the truth to correct the state's
petition. Some common examples are:

petition reads - "there's a hole in the kitchen floor"

truth - "there's a tear in the linoleum"

petition reads - "child was covered in bruises"

truth - "the child has minor bruises and scrapes on chins from climbing trees"

petitions reads - "the home was piled to the ceiling in clutter"

truth - "parents were packing to move"

Other things might include incorrect name spellings, birth dates, address, etc. Your affidavit
should directly address all errors, inconsistencies and omissions found in the petition.

Sometimes the Affidavit will accompany a Motion to Dismiss if the affidavit shows there is no
legal basis for state custody.

This affidavit should not be confused with the Answer that is filed in response to the petition.
The Answer will simply confirm or deny the allegations in the Petition. It generally needs to be
filed very quickly, in some states as little as 10 days.

Do Everything by Court Order

You should require a court order before complying with any ?demands? the agency might make. When
the agent starts saying you need to do this or that, your response might be:

Mrs. Government Agent, I?m happy to do all that is asked of me by the court. Do you have a court
order for the things you are asking?

The agent might say, ?No I don?t have a court order, but the court will require you to do the
things I?m asking anyway and it will please the judge if you have them completed early.?

By now, this person is likely someone that you greatly distrust. If the agent is anything like
the norm, she?s already lied to you, misled you and broken several laws and procedures.
Certainly you wouldn?t believe anything a person of this stature says without collaborating it
first. Your response to the above statement might be:

I?m thankful that you are trying to assist me in completing things you believe the court might
require of me. I appreciate your concern.

However, I wish to follow the legal channels set in place for matters such as these. I know the
court will base requirements imposed on me on specific findings of abuse or neglect. I prefer to
wait for my day in court to defend the allegations made against me rather than acting as a guilty
person by complying with demands put on child abusers now.

I?m confident the evidence will support my innocence and the court will be able to see through the
allegations and not impose conditions on me intended for child abusers.

You do not need to take child rearing (parent training) classes or have a psychological evaluation
until it is court ordered. It shouldn?t be court ordered until the court has adjudicated you
guilty of abuse or neglect.

Sometimes, however, courts get in the habit of ordering all parents to complete child rearing
classes, psychological evaluations and drug screens as part of the temporary orders. They
believe it is an easy (and lazy) way of moving cases through the system more quickly.

However, federal courts have held that such restrictions can?t be imposed on parents without first
finding that abuse or neglect did occur and second, finding some cause that the requirements are
actually needed.

Even after abuse or neglect has been adjudicated; before a psychological evaluation can be
ordered, there needs to be some justification for it, rather than simply ordering them for all
parents.

The same applies to drug screens. There must be some reason to suspect drug use and it?s
relationship to child abuse before a drug screen can be imposed. Likewise, there needs to be
some judicial finding of parental unfitness before child rearing classes can be imposed.

If a Judge orders these things in the temporary orders in your case, you should object orally in
open court while they are being ordered. Your response might be:

Your Honor, we object to these requirements being imposed without a judicial finding that creates
a need for them.

The court is so accustomed to doing everything with a rubber-stamp and herding families through
like cattle, that you?ll need to show them you?re a little different; you?re actually going to
insist on compliance with the law.

The Judge may ignore your objection and impose the requirements anyway. If this happens, you
should file an appeal to the state court of appeals. Contact our legal department for assistance
in finding caselaw to use for the appeal.

If you aren?t in open court when the orders are made, but they are simply provided to you later,
you?ll need to file a Motion to Reconsider with the court asking them to remove the restrictions
imposed before you appeal. In other words, you need to give the Judge an opportunity to
voluntarily rescind the orders before going to the appellate court.

Sometimes it may be to your advantage to voluntarily complete some things outside of a court
order. If this is the case, it should be done completely on your own, because you want to or
need to, and without the advice or assistance of the state agent.

As an example, if the state is alleging that you were ?high? at the time the children were taken,
you may want to rush to the hospital for a drug screen to prove you weren?t. Or the allegations
might be that you are ?often stoned? and leave the child to fend for himself. In this case, you
might choose to get a drug evaluation to offer as evidence in your defense.

There might be an allegation that you are mentally unstable because your mother committed suicide
or some other reason. You could choose to get a psychological evaluation to combat these
accusations.

If you have an evaluation or take child rearing classes, either by court order or by choice,
choose your own therapist. Do not go to the person the state agent recommends. When
interviewing therapists or counselors, ask them if they contract with the state. If they do, go
elsewhere. If you have reason to distrust the state, it doesn?t make much sense to trust those
that do business with the state.

When choosing a therapist or counselor, question them closely to make certain they share or
respect your closely-held convictions. If you are Christian, choose a Christian counselor or
enroll in a Christian-based child rearing class. If you are a vegetarian, choose a counselor
that will respect the choice you?ve made for your family. If you homeschool, chose a counselor
that understands and respects homeschooling.

Do not sign a release of information for the state agent to speak with your therapist or obtain
records. If you?ve gone voluntarily prior to a finding of abuse or neglect, you will bring the
information to court with you to use in your defense. There?s no reason for the state agent to
have it unless they have a court order.

If the agent has a court order for the information, it should be limited to the diagnosis or
findings, not the entire file. The agent should not get a court order for the information prior
to an adjudication of abuse or neglect. If such an order has been made, you?ll want to file a
Motion to Reconsider or an appeal.

Be sure to get a clear order for visitation and not something like, ?parents will get regular
visits?. The order should outline exactly how often visits should occur and what type of
restrictions will be imposed on them. If you don?t have a clear order, you can file a Motion to
Clarify with the court.

In summary; before you do anything, require a court order. If you want something, seek a court
order.

If the state fails to comply with any court order, you can file a Motion to Show Cause to hold the
agency in contempt of court. If you disagree with an order, file a Motion to Reconsider or an
appeal. If you?d like a court order explained more clearly, file a Motion to Clarify. These and
other legal forms may be found at www.cpswatch.com/forms.

Request an Administrative Hearing

If the agency substantiates you for abuse or neglect, you may request an administrative hearing to
overturn the substantiation.

An administrative hearing is separate from juvenile court. You can be substantiated for abuse or
neglect by the agency but not adjudicated through the court. Or, you could be unsubstantiated by
the agency and still be adjudicated through the court. Thus there are two findings to fight; the
agency?s and the court?s.

If you are substantiated by the agency, your name will be placed on the Child Abuse Registry
forever. This will prevent you from taking any job involving children. Most states list
unsubstantiated reports on the Child Abuse Registry for several years, up to 10 years in some
states. You can ask for an administrative hearing to remove your name from the Registry even if
you are unsubstantiated by the agency.

The procedure for seeking an administrative hearing is different in each state. Generally, the
procedure is outlined in the finding you receive from the agency; usually in the small print.

If an administrative hearing isn?t settled to your satisfaction, you may appeal that decision and
get another administrative hearing. If you?re not happy with the results there, you may file a
judicial appeal to have the matter heard in court.

Remember that an agency finding has little to do with the return of your children. Only the court
?s finding determines whether or not they remain in foster care. In fact, nationally, 18% of the
children placed in foster care were unsubstantiated by the agency.

However, it is very important to fight BOTH findings; the agency?s and the court?s to ensure that
your name won?t be listed on the Child Abuse Registry. Additionally, if you ever get entangled
with the agency in the future, a previous substantiation will be used to create a ?risk of harm?
to justify removing your child again or to remove future children.

To learn more about administrative hearings, see www.cpswatch.com/admin.

Make Your Attorney Work for You

Make sure that your attorney is on your side. Send a letter to him/her in the beginning outlining
exactly what you expect from the representation. This letter should clearly outline all details
of the representation, including the time frame in which they should return phone calls or answer
letters.

You should request that your attorney immediately mail you a copy of everything he/she receives
involving your case.

You should require that your attorney read everything in the court file and become familiar with
it so that he/she is adequately prepared to defend you.

You should require your attorney to present all possible legal options to you in a clear and
concise manner, then tell you which option he/she recommends and why. Since you are the one that
stands to lose your child, you should make the final decision.

Above all, require that your attorney believe in your innocence and ability to rear your child.
If the attorney has doubts about your innocence and abilities, he/she has no business
representing you.

Document all interactions with your attorney the same way you do for state agents (see Document
All Interactions). If the attorney consistently fails to heed your requests or provide an
adequate defense, you may file a formal complaint against him/her with the bar association or
attorney disciplinary board in your state.

If the representation is so bad that it severely impacts the outcome of your case, the attorney
can be sued for malpractice. In order to do this, you must be able to prove your claims and this
is done through documentation letters.

Suing an attorney for malpractice will not effect the outcome of your case, it will simply require
the attorney to compensate you for the damage he?s caused. This mean you?ve lost something
needing compensation (your child). Thus, it?s better to ensure that the attorney is doing a good
job through proper communication and documentation.

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Protect Your Child From State Care Abuse

There is a very legitimate concern for your child?s safety while in state custody. Your child
could be abused, neglected or even killed while in foster care.

According to a report published by the federal government, children were abused 4 times more often
in state care, sexually abused 11 times more often and murdered 5 times more often in fiscal year
1998.

Through the years, the record for safety in state care has gotten worse. In Kansas, after failing
to meet the standard for safety for more than 10 years in a row, they simply lowered it to be in
compliance.

If you witness any marks, scrapes, bruises, burns, etc. on your child, you should ask for an
explanation in writing. Document the injuries as carefully as possible by taking pictures.

Parents should be warned that the state may retaliate when you try to report abuse in foster care.
They may stop your visits. If this occurs, file a motion in court to have the visits resumed.

Continue to report the abuse to the proper authorities. Do everything in writing.

Use Proper Terminology

State agents often misuse words to support their agenda. By adopting their chosen language, you
are helping to promote their agenda.

Parent-There can only be one set of legal parents at any given time. State agents began calling
temporary caregivers ?foster parents? and so they needed another term to differentiate
traditional parents, thus they came up with ?birth parent?, ?biological parent? or ?bio parent?.

Let?s define each of these words correctly:

Parent-noun-(from Latin parere to give birth to) - one that begets or brings forth offspring

Foster-adjective-(from Old English fOstor-, food, feeding) - affording, receiving, or sharing
nurture

Birth-noun-the act or process of bringing forth young from the womb

Biological-adjective-of biology; produced by applied biology

Notice how the adjective chosen for temporary caregivers (foster) is much more desirable than the
one chosen for parents (birth or biological). The word foster even sounds better; a person who
feeds, nourishes, cares for, shares with and nurtures; what a powerful and desirable title to
hold! When combined with the stolen title of parent, the title of foster parent carries much
prestige and recognition.

However, in contrast, the adjective of ?birth? meaning only to ?bring forth young from the womb?
or ?biological? meaning only that the child was made from your biologic material are very
negative and undesirable. These adjectives do not impart any special recognition like ?nurturing?
or ?feeding?. Our society is constantly bombarded with the rhetoric, ?Anyone can be a sperm or
egg donor, but it takes a real parent to nurture a child.? In the context of what we?ve just
discussed, this statement basically says that foster (nurture) givers are ?real? parents and the
actual parents are simply sperm or egg donors.

Birth parent implies that you were the parent for the purposes of birth, but now the child needs
nurturing. Foster parents do that. Likewise, biological parent implies that you?ve supplied the
needed genetic material to create the child, but now your job is finished. Foster parents will
now feed, nurture and care for the child.

Under the original Latin definition of parent, meaning ?to give birth to?, a temporary caregiver
could never be a parent. However, in our society, we have a legal process that allows non-parents
to earn the title of parent; this occurs only through adoption. Temporary caregiver haven?t
adopted your child, thus, they aren?t parents either naturally or legally and shouldn?t be
addressed as such.

What is a ?foster parent?? First, they are temporary. They serve a temporary function. Second,
they are state contracted agents. Third, they are contracted to provide care for your child. Thus,
the proper term would be ?temporary state care provider?

Parenting used as a verb. According to Webster, parent as a verb means to "create" or
"originate. Thus, the term "parenting" would mean the act of causing the conception of a child.
After children are born, they are raised or reared. You don't attend parenting classes, you
attend child rearing classes. You're not there to learn how to produce children you're there to
learn how to raise them.

Using the term "parenting" to mean the act of raising a child wrongly implies that whoever is
doing the "parenting" must be a "parent". Children can be raised by many people that aren't
parents (such as relatives or state caregivers).

A recent Supreme Court ruling on family rights, Troxel vs Granville, used the term "child rearing"
some 16 times, but never used the term "parenting". The idea of using the word parenting to mean
raising a child was started by CPS; it isn't grounded in any theory of law or in the English
language. It is simply another way in which CPS tries to steal the sanctity of parenthood and
apply it to their own twisted agenda -- the total destruction of the traditional family. If you
don't support that agenda, you shouldn't adopt their rhetoric.

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